It’s been said that those who fail to learn from the past are destined to repeat it. For some of us that means a paradigm shift for 2011.
If you’re seeking ways to work smarter, enhance your work experience, increase your value to your organization, and move forward in your career, you need look no further than lessons on love.
That’s right. Relationships (past and present) can be a gold mine when it comes to providing wisdom in the world of work, as there are many parallels and similar standard operating procedures. Based upon what I’ve observed and experienced, here are some of the most important ones. So just in case you didn’t get the memo, take notes.
- You’ve got to be a good “team player” or you’ll likely be pink-slipped. Think about it. Nobody likes a slickster or a slacker. It puts unnecessary burden on others and causes resentment. Besides, nobody’s indispensable!
- Ongoing communication prevents future problems. Have you ever had a break-up that you didn’t see coming? Ouch. Whether it’s with a significant job project or significant other, it’s important to address goals, perceptions, challenges, and expectations. Regularly.
- Show up! Whether it’s being “emotionally available” or physically accounted for, your presence is required. I’m often amazed at how many folks jeopardize their job status due to poor attendance. Don’t be one of them. You gotta’ report for active duty folks; it’s a no-brainer.
- Like a bank account, you’ll only yield what you put in. Work hard and be consistent for optimal returns.
- Perks can be a great motivator. Strive to create win-win situations.
- Be willing to admit your mistakes and learn from them. Remember, “Pride cometh before the fall.”
- Increase the odds for success and longevity by making wise choices from the get go. For example, don’t choose a job as an accountant if you hate numbers. Don’t take a gig in customer service if you’re not a “people” person. Trust me on this one.
Follow these seven savvy tips to enhance your job performance and to create a career that you can fall in love with.
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Often times we invest a great deal of time and effort into our “love” relationships forgoing all of the other relationships that we must maintain. Thanks for reminder to put in time in all the relationships in our lives.
Thanks for the feedback! I appreciate the input.
Great tips, with so many applications!
Thanks, Karen. Glad you found them useful!
Jennifer! How’s my favorite WorkAwesome contributor?! 🙂
I never thought about the comparison between work and relationships, but this is about as good a take on it as I could imagine. All good points – I’d say in that first one, give 110% – we can only account for ourselves. And I’d have to say, there is a lot of relevant truth to “Just Showing Up.” It amazed me when I would counsel people as a pastor, how many relationships are on the rocks just because the husband doesn’t come home. The same is true for jobs. In fact, there are actually work-related classes where people “learn” skills like “showing up for work.” It’s hard to imagine for all of us on such a progressive work blog (wink), but there are a lot of people who weren’t raised with this kind of work ethic.
Thanks for sharing, Jennifer.
You’re “awesome”. 🙂 Thanks for the feedback. And I don’t mean to seem sexist here, but these lessons seem to present more difficulty for “Mars” inhabitants than those of us on planet Venus. 🙂 You were right on target with the advice you gave to those you counseled—you gotta be present.
Jen: I like that analogy and the comparison of the working world to relationships. I had not really thought about it before, but after reading your post and insights it makes so much sense. I also think this post serves as a great reminder that we have to always be on the lookout to extend the lessons that come our way to every aspect of our life. Great and thought provoking post.
I’m with Sibyl. I’ve never thought of that analogy and it makes since. And it’s very relatable. Great job!
How true! Heeding these valuable reminders (in love and work) will ultimately prevent the infamous words of Donald Trump—“You’re fired!”
Move to the head of the class. 🙂 Thanks much!
Great article! You are so right that there are so many opportunities that we can learn and grow from in our relationships and apply to our worklife/careers. Especially communication! Very useful advice.
Peace and blessings,
I’m glad you liked it. I greatly appreciate your input. Be well. 😉
Relationships are hard work, and there it is. Like many of the comments ‘being present’ makes relationships real. I like the reminder of relationships like a bank account, too.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts today. I appreciate your time and input.